A post from Chris Roberts:
In the New Testament, there’s a significant word used in connection with Jesus Christ. We’re told about his ‘customs’ (ethos). The word describes an action prescribed by long standing patterns or law. In everyday language, we might talk about someone’s ‘habits’.
In the Gospels, we discover that Jesus was a man with very strong habits. Just as his earthly parents had followed the habit of going to the temple every year (Luke 2:42), Jesus was in the habit of going to the Mount of Olives in prayer (Luke 22:39), going to the Synagogue on the Sabbath day (Luke 4:16) and teaching (Mark 10:1). These were his established, personal customs. The disciples noticed what Jesus did and where he did it. They saw how Jesus engaged in life with die-hard regularity. These patterns, established over time, became synonymous with the person himself. Jesus didn’t just live in his world, he in-habited it.
It is useful to recognise Christ’s habits and then compare them with ours. If his favourite prayer and preaching spot was evocative of Jesus himself, what habitual behaviours do others associated me with?
I came across a line in a book about household habits recently: ‘One of the most significant things about any household, is what is considered to be normal.’
The author comments that our routines can hugely shape who we actually are. They become the story and the culture of our families and a huge portion of the story of our lives. This idea isn’t limited to a family home, of course. All of our hearts are shaped by the habits we’ve formed over years, for good or for ill. Consequently, it’s not the sudden, grand gestures of repentance and change that have the greatest impact. But the long, well worn, ordinary habits of weekly gathered worship, personal prayer and real engagement with the Bible that God uses to shape us. These are the habits God moulds our hearts with.
Our family recently tried to make some small changes at home. We wanted to address some bad habits. The response from our children was: “But, daddy that’s not what we normally do!” It goes to show, in any home, the normal (whatever it is) is king. Hence, whilst it is very hard to stop habits and to start new ones, it’s worth it. When you seek to address bad habits, life will inevitably be a mess. Changing habits is full of inconvenience and pain, and nothing feels normal until it actually becomes normal!
Normal is always king. God has made us not to just live life, but to in-habit it. Let us choose our habits wisely.